It's Not As Hard as You Think It Is
There are tons of reasons why you might want to learn more about how to seduce a woman. You might have recently gotten out of a long term relationship and realize that you are a little bit rusty at this dating thing and you need to know more about attracting women. You may just know that things are not going as well with your personal life and that you have to do things a little bit differently if things are going to change for you. Whatever your reasons are for wanting to know how to seduce a woman, one of the things that I think you should know is that it probably is not as difficult as you assume it is. Most guys seem to think that there are talents that you have to be born with in order to have the seduction skills that you wish you had and that really just isn't the case at all. When I take a look at the guys who I know who are really good at seducing women, one thing is pretty apparent - they were not born knowing what to do.
They had to figure things out and they did.
The cool thing is that you don't have to go through all of the ups and downs that they did in order to get where they are. You can leverage your time a little bit more efficiently by modeling what successful guys do in order to get attention from women and in order to make them feel attracted to you. If you do this effectively enough, you should find that you are able to bypass a lot of the learning curves and the hurdles that normally get in the way for most guys and get a taste of what could be. This really does help out a lot if you want to know what it is that you need to do in order to seduce a woman. When you do finally "get it" you can use what you now know on just about any woman that you want to. That could even mean that you can learn to seduce your ex girlfriend and make her feel like she is falling in love with you all over again.
So, what are some things that you should know about seducing a woman so that you can become one of those guys who has that natural ability to entice and attract women without too much effort?
Here are a few things that are fundamentals of seduction that will help you out right away:
1. Seduction is a process and when you learn the process fully, you will become more successful with women than you have ever been before.
Like just about anything else in life, you need to learn the process of seduction if you are going to have a chance at becoming one of those guys who just seems to have a way with women. That's what most guys do who go from being total duds to total studs with women. They don't just wake up one day and have some natural ability to smooth talk women or wake up with some magical quality that makes women want to approach them. They learn the process. They find out what works and what doesn't work and then they take what they learn and apply it so that they can get better and better.
2. In order to seduce a woman successfully, you need to have the communication skills to get to know her.
While there are going to be some situations where you are able to seduce a woman pretty quickly, most of the time, it takes time. It takes time because you have to get to know her to understand what it is that she is really attracted to and it takes time to make her feel comfortable enough with you that you can take things to a physical level. You probably are not going to do that well if you don't take the time to really get to know a woman. It doesn't have to take weeks or months, the more effective you are at asking her the right questions and then using her answers to find out what her type really is, you should be able to do this in a few hours or less.
3. It's way easier to seduce a woman who already feels attracted to you.
One of the biggest mistakes that I see guys make in their attempts to seduce a woman is, they go after women who are not already attracted to them. While you might want that woman who seems to want nothing to do with you, that is about the hardest route that you can take. It's much easier to make a woman who already feels attracted to you initially to the point that she wants to be seduced by you than it is to take a woman who feels no attraction towards you to that point. Make things easier for yourself and go for women who already like what they see when they look at you.
They had to figure things out and they did.
The cool thing is that you don't have to go through all of the ups and downs that they did in order to get where they are. You can leverage your time a little bit more efficiently by modeling what successful guys do in order to get attention from women and in order to make them feel attracted to you. If you do this effectively enough, you should find that you are able to bypass a lot of the learning curves and the hurdles that normally get in the way for most guys and get a taste of what could be. This really does help out a lot if you want to know what it is that you need to do in order to seduce a woman. When you do finally "get it" you can use what you now know on just about any woman that you want to. That could even mean that you can learn to seduce your ex girlfriend and make her feel like she is falling in love with you all over again.
So, what are some things that you should know about seducing a woman so that you can become one of those guys who has that natural ability to entice and attract women without too much effort?
Here are a few things that are fundamentals of seduction that will help you out right away:
1. Seduction is a process and when you learn the process fully, you will become more successful with women than you have ever been before.
Like just about anything else in life, you need to learn the process of seduction if you are going to have a chance at becoming one of those guys who just seems to have a way with women. That's what most guys do who go from being total duds to total studs with women. They don't just wake up one day and have some natural ability to smooth talk women or wake up with some magical quality that makes women want to approach them. They learn the process. They find out what works and what doesn't work and then they take what they learn and apply it so that they can get better and better.
2. In order to seduce a woman successfully, you need to have the communication skills to get to know her.
While there are going to be some situations where you are able to seduce a woman pretty quickly, most of the time, it takes time. It takes time because you have to get to know her to understand what it is that she is really attracted to and it takes time to make her feel comfortable enough with you that you can take things to a physical level. You probably are not going to do that well if you don't take the time to really get to know a woman. It doesn't have to take weeks or months, the more effective you are at asking her the right questions and then using her answers to find out what her type really is, you should be able to do this in a few hours or less.
3. It's way easier to seduce a woman who already feels attracted to you.
One of the biggest mistakes that I see guys make in their attempts to seduce a woman is, they go after women who are not already attracted to them. While you might want that woman who seems to want nothing to do with you, that is about the hardest route that you can take. It's much easier to make a woman who already feels attracted to you initially to the point that she wants to be seduced by you than it is to take a woman who feels no attraction towards you to that point. Make things easier for yourself and go for women who already like what they see when they look at you.