Love Doesn't Just Fade Away, Does It?
You know the way that you feel better than anyone else does. Just because people say that you will eventually stop loving your ex girlfriend, that doesn't mean that is actually what is going to happen. There are plenty of instances where a break up occurs and it is not your decision for things to be that way. When you get dumped by your ex girlfriend and you don't want to end the relationship, you can't really expect that the love is just going to die out. It's still going to be there. You are still going to feel a lot of adoration and affection for your ex girlfriend. What happens when you realize that you still love your ex girlfriend? Are you just supposed to suppress those feelings and move on with your life? Or would it be better for you to not only acknowledge that they are still there, but also to use them as kind of a guidance for what you should do?
Depending on how the break up went down, I think that it can be a good thing if you acknowledge that you really do still feel very fond of your ex girlfriend and admit that the love is still there on your side. You may not want to tell your ex girlfriend that you still love her, at least not yet, but being honest with yourself about the way that you feel is probably the best thing that you can do. Trying to fake like you are completely over her is probably not going to help you out any and if anything, it might actually hurt your chances of being able to win her love back. Yes, that is right. I said that you could win her love back. You don't have to assume that just because you and her are broken up right now that this is the way that it has to be. There are things that you can do that will make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again and when she does, that is when you can tell your ex girlfriend that you still love her.
Here are some suggestions that you can use if you want to be able to win back the love of your ex girlfriend because you know that she is really the one woman that you want to be with:
1. Love takes some time and patience, so don't be in a rush to make her love you again.
It can be hard to exercise patience when you know that you still love your ex girlfriend, but that is going to be one of the best things that you can do. Most women don't want to be rushed into anything, but this is even more true when you are dealing with an ex girlfriend. As much as you may hope that you can have her back in your life tomorrow, it may take more time than that to make her feel like she is falling in love with you again. This is something that you have to know and be totally aware of if you want to have the best chance of being able to win back your ex girlfriend.
2. Making your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again means that you are going to have to take things back to when you first met her.
Even though you already have some history with your ex girlfriend, that doesn't mean that you can skip the entire process of building up her attraction for you again. If you do try and skip this, you are more than likely going to end up feeling disappointed. Things have to progress naturally and the natural way to make a woman fall in love with you is to do a lot of the same stuff that you did when you first met your ex girlfriend. This means that you need to go back to flirting with her and getting to know her as much as you can. It might feel strange to do this at first, but you want things to feel fresh when she is around you.
3. Showing your ex girlfriend jealousy will make it harder for her to fall in love with you again.
It's easy to become a little bit jealous when dealing with an ex girlfriend. You might hear her say something about another guy liking her or you might just suspect that there might be some competition that you don't know about. No matter what, if you want to be able to make your ex girlfriend fall back in love with you, then you are going to have to try and suppress any jealous feelings that you might have. It may be hard to do that at times, but remember what is really at stake here. The last thing that you want your ex girlfriend to think is that you are some jealous type of guy who is going to make her life hell if she gets back with you.
4. To make her love you again, you need to also know how to make her feel an immense amount of sexual tension when she is near you.
This is really the best catalyst that you can create if you are going to make her want to be in a relationship with you again. She needs to feel like there is an immense amount of sexual tension that is unresolved between you and her. As long as she feels like that sexual tension is completely unresolved and that it is very strong between you and her, you have an excellent chance of being able to win back your ex girlfriend. That is the point where you'll be able to tell your ex girlfriend that you still love her and have her feeling the same exact way.
Depending on how the break up went down, I think that it can be a good thing if you acknowledge that you really do still feel very fond of your ex girlfriend and admit that the love is still there on your side. You may not want to tell your ex girlfriend that you still love her, at least not yet, but being honest with yourself about the way that you feel is probably the best thing that you can do. Trying to fake like you are completely over her is probably not going to help you out any and if anything, it might actually hurt your chances of being able to win her love back. Yes, that is right. I said that you could win her love back. You don't have to assume that just because you and her are broken up right now that this is the way that it has to be. There are things that you can do that will make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again and when she does, that is when you can tell your ex girlfriend that you still love her.
Here are some suggestions that you can use if you want to be able to win back the love of your ex girlfriend because you know that she is really the one woman that you want to be with:
1. Love takes some time and patience, so don't be in a rush to make her love you again.
It can be hard to exercise patience when you know that you still love your ex girlfriend, but that is going to be one of the best things that you can do. Most women don't want to be rushed into anything, but this is even more true when you are dealing with an ex girlfriend. As much as you may hope that you can have her back in your life tomorrow, it may take more time than that to make her feel like she is falling in love with you again. This is something that you have to know and be totally aware of if you want to have the best chance of being able to win back your ex girlfriend.
2. Making your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again means that you are going to have to take things back to when you first met her.
Even though you already have some history with your ex girlfriend, that doesn't mean that you can skip the entire process of building up her attraction for you again. If you do try and skip this, you are more than likely going to end up feeling disappointed. Things have to progress naturally and the natural way to make a woman fall in love with you is to do a lot of the same stuff that you did when you first met your ex girlfriend. This means that you need to go back to flirting with her and getting to know her as much as you can. It might feel strange to do this at first, but you want things to feel fresh when she is around you.
3. Showing your ex girlfriend jealousy will make it harder for her to fall in love with you again.
It's easy to become a little bit jealous when dealing with an ex girlfriend. You might hear her say something about another guy liking her or you might just suspect that there might be some competition that you don't know about. No matter what, if you want to be able to make your ex girlfriend fall back in love with you, then you are going to have to try and suppress any jealous feelings that you might have. It may be hard to do that at times, but remember what is really at stake here. The last thing that you want your ex girlfriend to think is that you are some jealous type of guy who is going to make her life hell if she gets back with you.
4. To make her love you again, you need to also know how to make her feel an immense amount of sexual tension when she is near you.
This is really the best catalyst that you can create if you are going to make her want to be in a relationship with you again. She needs to feel like there is an immense amount of sexual tension that is unresolved between you and her. As long as she feels like that sexual tension is completely unresolved and that it is very strong between you and her, you have an excellent chance of being able to win back your ex girlfriend. That is the point where you'll be able to tell your ex girlfriend that you still love her and have her feeling the same exact way.