Be the One Who Isn't Afraid to Move On

One of the things that you can do for yourself that is going to make it a lot easier to get over the break up is to be the one who isn't afraid to move on.  Usually,  when dealing with break ups,  it ends up being the guy who is still living in the past and who is still afraid to move on.  Sometimes that is not the case,  but usually it is.  Why not be the one who isn't afraid to move on?  That way,  you won't have to worry about hearing about your ex girlfriend rebounding and feeling insecure because you are still grieving over the break up.  That is one of the hardest things to deal with,  to realize that your ex has move on and you haven't and you can take away that hardship by making a point of being the one who isn't afraid to move on with your life.  The funny thing about this is,  it might be the very thing that makes your ex girlfriend think highly of you again and even makes her feel attracted to you once more.